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Hello, this is President Yasui. I run a company specializing in the inspection of high-pressure gas equipment as a solo entrepreneur.
Today, I visited the Tajimi City Fire Department to consult about submitting a notification for mobile manufacturing. I referred to Mie Prefecture's official website, where the Disaster Prevention Division of the Fire and Safety Department provides a guide for high-pressure gas manufacturing permit applications. I carefully studied the High-Pressure Gas Safety Act and created the necessary documents to meet Article 8 requirements.
Since Mie's guide is mainly for Type 1 manufacturing facilities, I customized the documents to fit Type 2 manufacturing. This simplification should make the application process smoother. While adjusting the storage location, I’m preparing for the next submission and starting production.
Recently, I’ve noticed that I can no longer tolerate hearing people shout angrily, whether in real life or on TV dramas.
Currently, my wife is watching the Monday night drama "119 Emergency Call," and I can't help but notice how often the characters raise their voices. They frequently shout to stop actions or deliver strict orders. I understand that it’s a high-pressure emergency call center setting, but the constant tension is overwhelming.
Although it's just a drama, I can't shake the thought that it normalizes the idea that yelling at someone is the proper way to stop or control them.
When emotions run high, people often shout. But isn't that simply a failure to control one’s emotions?
Many people tend to raise their voices when they are in a bad mood or dissatisfied. But if your behavior is dictated by mood swings, it suggests immaturity. Unfortunately, others around you end up adjusting their behavior to accommodate your emotional instability.
In my own household, I've noticed a pattern: when parents raise their voices, children tend to mirror that behavior. Our child has started responding to dissatisfaction by shouting, almost as if trying to intimidate us.
Not a day goes by without someone raising their voice.
I don’t necessarily have a strong desire for a completely quiet life, but I do want to live without constantly hearing angry voices.
Even within a family, it's essential to be considerate and respectful. If parents frequently yell, children will naturally question why they're being told not to do the same. It’s hypocritical.
Careless words can slowly damage family bonds without us even realizing it. Nothing good comes from that.
Why is it that some people can be kind to strangers but not to their own family? Many adults unknowingly live with double standards.
Changing others is difficult, but we can change ourselves.
If I were someone who regularly raised my voice, I would start by committing to stop. I can’t control how others behave, but I can control myself.
Of course, ideally, the mother—the primary source of love for children—would also adopt this approach. While fathers show love too, they often struggle to match the nurturing role of a mother. But if that’s difficult, then the father must take the lead in creating a better environment.
If there’s a goal to work toward, we must move in that direction.
This principle applies to both work and personal life.
Can I truly create a life where I no longer have to hear angry shouting?
I intend to keep trying.
Today's Quote
"Failing to control your emotions is a sign of immaturity. Growing old without emotional maturity is never a good thing."
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