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Hello. I’m President Yasui, a solo business owner running a company primarily focused on inspections of high-pressure gas facilities.
Problems are piling up.
At this point, it feels like I have no choice but to take everything on myself and handle it directly.
Rebuilding something is honestly not easy at all—I can feel that deep in my bones.
When we want things to improve, don’t we often try to change other people?
But that never really works.
The more you try to change someone, the more resistance you create.
If there’s a true mentor–disciple relationship or a deep foundation of trust, that’s a different story.
But those kinds of relationships are rare—because they require mutual trust and credibility from both sides.
People don’t change unless they are willing to accept painful truths and things they don’t want to hear, reflect on them internally, and think seriously about what they should do differently and how to succeed next time.
Without building that internal thought process, change just doesn’t happen.
Human beings are truly complex and fascinating.
You can’t change unless you want to—but even if you want to, changing is not easy.
So if you can’t change other people, what should you do?
The answer is simple: change yourself.
You cannot change others.
It’s not just difficult—it’s basically impossible.
That means the only thing you can still change, even starting today, is yourself.
So you change.
Instead of living carelessly or sloppily, you think things through.
You calculate, you build hypotheses, you take action—and if it fails, you admit that failure, reflect on it, and come up with the next move.
When you act while thinking, “What will happen if I do this?”, things start to change little by little.
As people get older, there are surprisingly many who can no longer admit their mistakes.
But recognizing that tendency in yourself and honestly admitting, “That was a failure,” is crucial.
Without that, there is no growth—you simply become a very disappointing version of yourself.
It’s okay to fail.
We’re human, after all.
Admitting failure is where everything really starts.
Thank you for reading all the way to the end.
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